Love

We spend some days looking for it...L some have it and don't appreciate it... O some don't deserve it... V many spend their life never knowing it... EEEE

Some have it in front of them and can't see it!

My bruised but still beating heart believes that everything revolves around love. So with that concept in mind, I write this blog today for those that may see it my way or for you to at least take into consideration. Accepting people the way they are= love right? This first idea is a difficult one since we sometimes do things that don't deserve love right? On a day like today, we are supposed to recognize those people in our lives that make our hearts go pitter patter or those that we just simply love for just being part of our lives. I get a kick out of all the corners in the streets filled with flower arrangements and teddy bears, everything is business now-a days including love. Nothing like the last minute gift for that special someone.

What I see and hear about time and time again, is about when a relationship is struggling; and how people want to jump ship and say "Adios sucker" at the sign of a struggle. I talk to people all the time and what I like to share with them is the wisdom that I have gained; if only to help them stay focused on the reason they were first interested in the other person. The number one thing I learned from my experiences was to change ME first. I don't know if that's the key to a happy and long lasting marriage so that it withstands the heavy winds that blow through it. I did manage to learn to change my reactions, my words (or lack of), my way of thinking and my way of giving. It's simple...give more than you take.

For my future husband (oh cause I do still believe in marriage), may I be the wife I never was to you. I promise to never be the same person again (I actually can't go back to the old me). To my lord and savior, I promise to not let you down as you are now my first love and I will honor and cherish you every day of my life from that moment (you know) on. For those in relationships and ESPECIALLY for those who are still married... Love each other like the first time, Always greet each other with a kiss and remember to think of the little details that makes the other person happy AND last but not least...Always have God in your life as he is the only one that can ever do miracles.

With lots of love from my heart, I give you this blog,

Love,

Kika